Relationship Advice on Sidechat | how do i tell my long distance boyfr that i don’t feel like priority? i know he has a life but he’s honestly not doing much with it which is why id like to bring it up, i don’t want to seem like im picking a fight, i wanna be clear with him.

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Relationship Advice 3w

how do i tell my long distance boyfr that i don’t feel like priority? i know he has a life but he’s honestly not doing much with it which is why id like to bring it up, i don’t want to seem like im picking a fight, i wanna be clear with him.

Anonymous 3w

What’s first important is to realize that you could be his priority, but men sometimes struggle to show that and find balance in their lives. I know this from experience. I had a LDR and had to have this convo. You can say (on a call, not text) hey, I just wanted to let you know that for these reasons __ I haven’t been feeling prioritized. I know the distance allows for me to misinterpret things, and for our emotional distance to grow, so please let me know your thoughts. It’s been bothering me”

Anonymous

#1 3w

Just try to encourage open dialogue, not close ended questions or anything that might make him feel “attacked”. It’s possible he’s struggling with the distance. That’s why I suggested the sentence about you potentially misinterpreting it. I believe you that you feel like not a priority, but it might make him comfortable to talk