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Relationship Advice 17h
i was dating my bf for 8 months and i think he’s moved on—not sure tho. i know he wasn’t ready for a relationship and he kind of forced my hand into a breakup. yet, i can’t go a day without a huge whole in my chest. i cry everyday. idk what to do
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Anonymous 16h

Well that’s normal because yall dated for so long and these words might not be but so comforting but trust me, it gets better! You will move on eventually too and you will find someone better. Sometimes people are meant to be temporary in your life. Just take what you can from your ex relationship and use it to grow. Take this time to focus on yourself, and do things that make you feel good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

thank u, it’s hard for me yknow. i care about him so much and ik he needs to grow emotionally. understand why when things get hard he runs away instead of facing it. every other part of the relationship was beautiful. he loved me and was so intentional. that’s why him moving on hurts so badly. he’s just gonna hurt that girl. or change when he couldn’t for me. i hate being a lesson

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I’m sorry girly, it hurts but there’s not much you can do about it, you can’t change a man because he won’t change unless he wants to.. but I wholeheartedly believe you will find another man who will cherish you, hear you, and show his love through actions rather than just words🫶🏽

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