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why does my girlfriend constantly ask if i love her
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Anonymous 3w

she's insecure and wants to be reassured

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Anonymous 3w

Probably bc she’s unsure and wants your reassurance

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Anonymous 3w

I ask my bf if he loves me all the time. Not because I’m unsure, it’s just cause it’s nice to hear and get a confirmation. I like being reassured and he doesn’t do that all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i say it like everyday and i do things for her i just don’t get why she wouldn’t trust me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it's not about trust. she wants to hear it because it makes her feel reassured, not because she thinks you're lying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i get it it’s just draining constantly hearing her ask when i do so much to show i do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I would recommend not expressing that to her because she's going to get in her own head about asking you and then feel much worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

right, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Learn about Love Languages and share that with her, helps you both understand each other a bit and know to acknowledge https://www.simplypsychology.org/five-love-languages.html

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

love languages were just made up by some guy, no scientific or psychological basis to them

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