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Relationship Advice 16w
How do I tell a friend I got feelings for them but don’t wanna be with them
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Anonymous 16w

Why do you need to tell them at all?

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Anonymous 16w

I had this same situation so i just dropped him from my life completely

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I needa get it off my chest

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I still wanna be friends with them tho instead of jus disappearing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Well you can’t, your feelings change the dynamic. You’re hurting either them or yourself and most likely both

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

She’s one of my best friends I need her in my life as my friend still and ion wanna hurt her I could give 2 fucks if I’m hurt I yay don’t wanna hurt her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

You do you I’m saying this from a woman perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I am now but I can’t keep disappearing plus I can’t avoid her we got a lot of mutual friends

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