Yea he should already know. Try asking him about what his fears are about marriage, and what he wants in life and a relationship.

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Girl ur not being dramatic at all. He should know after spending as much time as he has with you if he could see himself spending the rest of his life with you

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Tbh I would leave 4 years is enough time even for 22yr olds. If you stay you could be wasting time you have to find someone who wants the same amount of commitment that you do.

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If he’ll be ready by then, but I honestly think he should probably know if he wants to marry me now let alone by year 7. Am I being overdramatic?

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So after talking he said he does want to marry me, just not for a while. I’m getting my masters degree so I’m perfectly fine waiting for a couple more years, but I have also let him know that 7 years is kind of my limit. He said he doesn’t know what he’ll want 3 years from now which makes me scared. I also told him I don’t want to get played and waste my time.

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he should already know,, four years together and yall haven't figured out if marriage is on the table?? that's crazy. i broke up w my ex after two years when we realized we didnt want to get married.

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I wanna know where are the girls like u are that actually wanna get married my previous is 24 met her at 22 she never wanted marriage she began mirroring what I wanted in the relationship saying she wanted the same but in reality she just wanna have fun and try multiple persons I wish she’d been honest with me so that I wouldn’t have fell in love 2 years of my life gone because I thought we was on the same page as me

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if he says he doesnt know after 4 years then that’ll just lead into doubt in your marriage, you’re young it’s better to break it off now and find your forever person rather than wait longer and waste your time on someone that might never happen

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