Relationship Advice on Sidechat | Hi! My classmate and I have an odd dynamic, and I'm unsure what to make of it. She initiates conversations with me in-person, and I noticed she gives me more attention than everyone else even despite being friends with everyone (continued in comments)

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Hi! My classmate and I have an odd dynamic, and I'm unsure what to make of it. She initiates conversations with me in-person, and I noticed she gives me more attention than everyone else even despite being friends with everyone (continued in comments)

Anonymous 1d

this isn't an odd dynamic. she either considers you a friend or has a crush on you. pretty straightforward.

Anonymous 1d

She also at the end of classes offers to walk with me, and outside of when she is busy, we have made this into something we do together. She also compliments me on what I wear, laughs a lot at any joke I make even if it isn't funny, and is very perceptive about me, remembering details I leave in passing or a long time ago

Anonymous

OP 1d

At the same time, I noticed she rarely texts or responds to texts I send in until suddenly, she'll initiate texting me before it goes dead again. Similarly, despite her being kind to me, when I try to return the favor, she is very hesitant to accept anything in return

Anonymous

OP 1d

This back and forth has been kind of confusing me so I was wondering what people think could be going on? I'm unsure if we're just very friendly classmates or friends

Anonymous

OP 1d

Thanks to everyone who read and I appreciate it

Anonymous

#1 23h

Thanks so much for reading and your advice! You're right, I think me calling it odd was a mistake