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We broke up a month ago. We still hook up, but she started talking to a lot of other guys and girls. Says she hasn’t done anything with them or even met any of them irl. I’m confused. Is it just sex? Cause she is clearly trying to move on
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Anonymous 2w

you need to figure out what your boundaries are here. breaking up and continuing to be physically intimate is a recipe for hurt feelings, and it sounds like you're already well on your way there

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Anonymous 2w

Ask her why she said she loves you. Set boundaries and say either you’ll sleep with her if there’s no emotions involved, you get back in the relationship, or you cut each other off. You’re both making it messy.

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Anonymous 2w

It doesn’t matter what it is she’s single and can do what she wants

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Anonymous 2w

A few days ago when we hooked up she told me she loved me and she hasn’t said that in a while. Was it just heat of the moment? Cause she seems very dead set on not getting back together

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

YEAH! I KNOW!! I’m asking if I still got a shot. I’m not sure why else she’d tell me she loves me if she didn’t still have feelings. Especially when she stopped saying it for like a month

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