Relationship Advice on Sidechat | just got my tonsils out on thursday and my bf has only come to see me once.. he is 45 mins away… is it too much to expect him to come see me almost every other day?

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Relationship Advice 1d

just got my tonsils out on thursday and my bf has only come to see me once.. he is 45 mins away… is it too much to expect him to come see me almost every other day?

Anonymous 1d

In this economy? Yes. It’s a bit much. How long have you been dating? You sound pretty young too if this is affecting you that much. Does he work? Have school? Idk, it’s a lot to drive that much with the gas prices nowadays. Would FaceTiming suffice for comfort?

Anonymous 11h

45 is really far idk why ur acting like its nothing

Anonymous

#1 1d

i can’t talk… we’ve been dating for a year.

Anonymous

OP 1d

Oh girl you’re so right my bad. Hmmm have you communicated this to him? How realistic is every other day for him?

Anonymous

#1 1d

it’s like pretty realistic. he works in college sports so he’s got games scattered here n there but that roughly translates to he could be here every other day, every third day if he rlly wanted to see me

Anonymous

OP 1d

Yeah I would tell him that you want him around more for comfort. If he blatantly says no then there’s probably more conversations that need to be had. I hope you a swift recovery!

Anonymous

#1 1d

thank you. waiting for his response rn…