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Relationship Advice 14h
After me and my gf did the deed, she just says that my pp is the perfect size and fat, and that girth is more important than length. I ask her why she says that and she says cuz the longer ones just hurt the cervix…
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Anonymous 14h

brother stop overthinking. she’s right, shit can hurt. why would you be insecure when she’s literally saying your dick is perfect? rock that shit and be confident in it

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Anonymous 13h

Idk where you live but next time winter rolls around, go outside and shove your bare hand in the snow for a while. Once it’s sufficiently numb, go punch the first concrete wall you find, full force. This is what it feels like for me when a dude hits my cervix. That shit HURTS. you know what feels good? A stretch. Your girl is telling the truth that she likes it and all you do is complain and disbelieve. What next, she says you’re a good kisser and you get mad that she’s kissed others? Lock in

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Anonymous 14h

I can help

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Anonymous 14h

I asked how would she know and she just tells me cuz she had sex in the past with such men and it hurt, she assures me that I’m perfect length and everything but this just triggered a new insecurity 😀. What do I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

How so?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I’ll hit her cervix for u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Go seek help bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

At the end of the day, every vaj is different. I personally can’t take a huge amount of girth or length, so if you’re perfect size for her, it’s great. You also have to ask her why she compares you to other guys whether she’s trying to compliment you or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Idk I feel really insecure rn. What if she enjoyed it better than mine and only said it to make me feel better? And if that truly hurt her, why did she have sex with them multiple times, like what?😭. I feel like she’s lying just to make her/me feel better about the situation and it sucks to have that feeling

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Well you need to really ask if she is ok with your size. Also, typically, you’re not in pain in the moment unless you’re being stretched out. She could be bruised after the fact which can last anywhere from an hour to a few weeks. It can end up hurting on the inside, but it doesn’t take away from the pleasure she felt in the moment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

I have asked her and she says she’s ok with the size, but just having a hard time believing her lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Believe her the first time unless she proves otherwise. If you keep being skeptical of her, it’ll end up ruining your relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

My point exactly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Cuz I don’t see any point in bringing that up in the first place? Like why even bring up my length are insinuate that you’ve had bigger??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

WOULD YOU RATHER SHE LIE TO YOU? WOULD YOU RATHER SHE SAY “I’ve had guys that were better?” If you’re upset with your girlfriend being comfortable enough to talk to you about her past experiences, break up with her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

I would rather her just say mine is good and not say that “ big ones hurt”, that’s such a bag handed compliment and disrespectful 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

So basically, you only want to hear what you want to hear and you don’t want your girlfriend to see you as one of her best friends and be able to tell you her feelings. You’re an ass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Also, you watch way too much porn if you think big dick is comfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

I think you’re my favorite woman on the app rn.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

it’s only a bad handed compliment to guys because often men are worried about that sorta thing and can be insecure about it but most girls do have that perfect size for them. i feel that way about my bf. he doesn’t have a huge dick and i think his is perfect for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

you can talk to her about it and tell her it made you feel insecure or bad and i’m sure she’ll be honest and it’ll help. but i promise she’s being honest with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

How do you feel about a fall wedding?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

Yes ma’am absolutely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Hell yeah 🎉 💍 🍂

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