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My gf doesn’t like answering any sort of sexual questions about her in the past, and I try to be very respectful. But at the same time I do feel like I want to know if she did some things or not which I genuinely would consider dealbreakers.
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Anonymous 18h

Hi OP, context is needed to see how this all comes about. Logically getting to know each other overtime will reveal clues. I am a guy and a virgin by choice, so to me basically I wait for sex. That means all that isn’t known about the woman. By knowing her overtime, the history will come to light naturally. I know what you mean when history is important and how it takes time allows a person to misrepresent and waste another person’s time.

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Anonymous 1d

But she doesn’t want to answer, what do I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

So basically it takes time today and is harder to know people due to Internet culture. For me to wait and a woman still interested is a test that she wants principles rather than fun and pleasure. That is the biggest litmus test basically that takes time.

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