
Hi OP, context is needed to see how this all comes about. Logically getting to know each other overtime will reveal clues. I am a guy and a virgin by choice, so to me basically I wait for sex. That means all that isn’t known about the woman. By knowing her overtime, the history will come to light naturally. I know what you mean when history is important and how it takes time allows a person to misrepresent and waste another person’s time.