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my bf of 4 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and i lowkey already have a new crush im talking to,, i kinda feel guilty it’s so soon but also he broke up with me, if he hadn’t done that i’d 100% still be with him ugh
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Anonymous 21h

You’re single there’s nothing to feel guilty about

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Anonymous 21h

Don’t feel guilty at all!

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Anonymous 15h

Dont feel guilty but make sure youre over him before you really pursue another relationship!! Youre single but your next partner deserves to have someone thats ready

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Anonymous 15h

I mean ur single. Soemtiems in long term relationships like that, you're checked out. Like you get over them while still in the relationship yk? There's nothing wrong with that. You don't owe him loyalty anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

i wasn’t even checked out of the relationship which is partially why it feels so crazy to me, dude broke up with me and i thought it would take me a vvv long time to move on, i had no intentions of meeting someone else so it feels weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

very true! idk if this will really lead to a relationship though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

some people get over things quicker and that's okay!

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