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Relationship Advice 1d
im so lost an confusing after finding out he cheated on me like what do i do
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Anonymous 1d

Hopefully leave him, that’s what I did and it took time but you’ll move on

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Anonymous 1d

Leave him, I’m sorry that happened

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Anonymous 1d

As an outside perspective, My friend also just got cheated on and I wish he would leave! Like please you are way too good for that I do not care how much you like this person you are worth more than to be treated like this. Idgaf how sorry they are or anything of the sort. Your friends and the people who truly love you would never purposefully hurt you like this and there’s someone out there who won’t and who will actually respect you and yalls relationship !

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Anonymous 1d

you either stay or leave and both are going to hurt. this event can’t be erased but it’s up to you to decide how to respond. things can change and get better and you guys can be happy again. it will take a LOT of work and effort but you guys have to want it.if he truly loves you then he will spend the rest of his life proving his love for you. either road you choose will be painful but do whatever helps you find your peace 🫶

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Anonymous 1d

Hit him with a car. Not your car, they’ll catch you

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Anonymous 1d

You get even. EVEN.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

A man who cheats doesn’t deserve you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Maybe that sounds insensitive cus I don’t know the extent of how bad you or my friend is hurting and deeply cares for your partner but imo it’s better to let it hurt now as bad as it is rather than continue on for what? Years? Days? Forever? And then you may or may not be cheated on again or even if you aren’t will you ever not be questioning it in the back of your mind? You have to be with someone you can trust!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

i cant bring myself to leave it doesnt even feel real it didnt feel like it would ever happen to us our anniversary is this week and i dont even want to cancel our plans cause i cant imagine us being broken up and not celebrating like it feels so unnatural

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Just get EVEN.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Stupidest idea I’ve ever heard

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Your face is stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Drat

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

That’s right.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

appreciate it but i wont be cheating back i cant bring myself to do that its not who i am

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

writing this down

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