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i found a video of my boyfriend and a girl he was casually hooking up with on his phone. i confronted him about it and admitted to being wrong, but also got mad i was on his phone without asking. it’s been a year and it still hurts. to be continued…
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Anonymous 6d

pt 2. anyway, he doesn’t like when i bring it up because it’s “in the past” but it still hurts me. the girl recently liked one of his instagram photos too. am i just holding on to this too much? should i learn to let it go?

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Anonymous 6d

Bongcat thinks you need to sit him down a beat some sense into him. Fr tho, Bongcat thinks you should try again really hard to make your feelings understood if not cut him off👍🏻

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Anonymous 6d

Honestly, that’s a little suspicious if he’s not willing to sit down and have a conversation that is important and clearly a problem for you. Communication is KEY to relationships, and if he’s not willing to talk to you about something so significant to you that it’s affecting you a year later then that’s a big problem. Just because he might not see where your coming from doesn’t excuse his lack of willingness to affirm or even acknowledge your feelins

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Or if he brushes off your emotions for his convenience often then that’s just a red flag.

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