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were going through a rough patch because my girlfreind feels like i see her as a girlfreind and nothing more, and that i make her feel as if shes not smart or interesting, I want to be better in every way for her and make her feel validated, how can I?
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Anonymous 3w

From a girls perspective who kinda is feeling this same way in her relationship, I think what I’m seeking from my partner is just like when I’m talking I want them to be engaged. I want to be asked questions about my day/my friends/ my life/ etc. feeling like your partner wants to hear and not just is forced to makes a huge difference. And also probably affirmations every now and then of you even saying you’re proud of them, they look nice today, keep up the good work on school/work.

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