Relationship Advice on Sidechat | Is it a little odd that my two biggest “what if” guys got engaged the same year as me only like a month or two after? one guy was a complicated 7+ year thing and the other guy was a 3-4 year thing.

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Relationship Advice 19h

Is it a little odd that my two biggest “what if” guys got engaged the same year as me only like a month or two after? one guy was a complicated 7+ year thing and the other guy was a 3-4 year thing.

Anonymous 19h

not really. engagements generally happen around the same time of year and around the same age.

Anonymous

#1 18h

Both the girls look very similar to me. One of the guys is like 5 years older than me. He and his family is hyper trad. He was with her for like 4 years but pops the question a month or so after me? Her and I also basically have the same name. The other guy, he got a gf a month or so after I got official with my guy. and then gets engaged right after me too. When he got married I didn’t swipe up to say congrats or anything and ignored his post for 5 days. Then when mine happened he did the same thing

Anonymous

OP 18h

idk. you know these guys better than I do obviously but to me this sounds a little self-centered. I doubt multiple people were waiting on you to do something so they could make decisions affecting their entire lives.

Anonymous

#1 16h

I’m just noticing some odd coincidences, im not saying it’s completely one sided either. Like I love my person but I do notice some things. I’m sure those two guys are genuinely happy. But I understand being somewhat affected by someone you had a really intense thing with for multiple years and previously talked about marriage with.