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Is it normal to feel uncomfortable when my bf talks about sex with his exes? He found a blanket he had sex on in high school and made a joke about it. It immediately dampened the mood. Am I just being insecure?
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Anonymous 3w

eh it’s pretty case specific. if he is bringing it up often then i would 100% be uncomfortable. but how old are you guys? bc high school exes are so long ago idk that kinda seems irrelevant like i understand why he would think it wouldn’t matter if it was so long ago basically a childhood memory lol

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Anonymous 3w

How sex is trivial to him, being with you is trivial too because he’s pushing boundaries. Ask him why such topics are trivial and if he sees you that way. What if you bring up such things with prior exes or experiences.

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Anonymous 3w

Depends on how he sees sex tbh. For me personally it’s just an activity that feels to animal to be all that loving, but if it’s something he holds kinda sacred then I’d start being worried

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