
Honestly I’d wait a bit until you feel ready again. Then when you are, make a list of traits you want in a partner. Things you can’t negotiate for example, “my partner will remember important dates.” Or, “my partner should be kind/emotionally available.” Doesn’t have to be that but you get the idea. After that just look at the people who come into your life. If you find yourself falling for someone, reference the list. I can’t one way is correct but it helps to have a list to reference.
Dating sucks in 2026 everyone just wants a one night stand or cheats. Hard to find someone but I’d say lay off the dating apps and let it happen naturally. Genuine connections grow in person not over the phone. Meeting and talking in a public setting has much more potential then just waiting for a reply or swiping until you find what “you like”