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So genuinely… how do I find a boyfriend? I got dumped a month ago by the man of me dreams because he decided one day randomly that we were on different paths suddenly and I found him on hinge… I don’t even know how to date again
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Anonymous 3w

Honestly I’d wait a bit until you feel ready again. Then when you are, make a list of traits you want in a partner. Things you can’t negotiate for example, “my partner will remember important dates.” Or, “my partner should be kind/emotionally available.” Doesn’t have to be that but you get the idea. After that just look at the people who come into your life. If you find yourself falling for someone, reference the list. I can’t one way is correct but it helps to have a list to reference.

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Anonymous 3w

Dating sucks in 2026 everyone just wants a one night stand or cheats. Hard to find someone but I’d say lay off the dating apps and let it happen naturally. Genuine connections grow in person not over the phone. Meeting and talking in a public setting has much more potential then just waiting for a reply or swiping until you find what “you like”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

This comment is very hurtful for people like me that are serious about wanting to grow together and eventually build something special. ☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

It’s true that dating is hard and yeah I agree it sucks but just because it’s difficult doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Just keep firm on your standards and you’ll find someone to match! I went thru heartbreak after heartbreak but I found my second half eventually. 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I stopped getting matches on apps. And I am feeling devastated.

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