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Relationship Advice 3w
Is it justifiable to end 1 year relationship based on our differences in physical intimacy? I like some affection, but my bf is extremely affectionate. However, he has touched me in some ways that has made me feel disrespected and uncomfortable. It has
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Anonymous 3w

It has made me lose feelings. We’ve talked about it and he said he respected me and my boundaries but I feel that he is only happy when I let him touch. And I could only tolerate it for so long.

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Anonymous 3w

get tf out of there, girl. run.

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Anonymous 3w

It is valid to break up over that and better for both of you in the end to find ppl who love you the same way you want to be loved.

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Anonymous 2w

Sexual chem matters fs 100%

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I think talking may help too. I overthink when I say no due to discomfort and the guilt I feel manifests itself as me reading into the situation more and assuming they aren’t happy with me because I said no. When in reality, he’s always completely fine and respectful and a conversation fixes it. Idk your situation so I can’t say it’s the same for you, but also something to think about.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yeah this makes sense, ty! 🙏

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