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Relationship Advice 5w
I live with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for over 2 years. We even have a cat. I love him very much, but I don’t think we’re meant to be. I don’t want to lose the life I have, but we’re just different. I don’t know what to do. I’m just scared.
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Anonymous 5w

How do you know you’re not meant to be? how do you tell?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It’s just the small things that really matter to me. Like I want someone to show their affection, take me on dates, put in effort, sing in the car with me, take me dancing, smile in pictures, travel with me, and so many other things. And my boyfriend just doesn’t do those things. He wants to travel but he doesn’t have the desire and longing for it as I do. I want to backpack and he just doesn’t care to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I really get that — you said your friend is moving to Germany. Maybe you could go with them for a little bit/help them move and that would help you get over your boyfriend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I really wish I could, but I can’t get off work.

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