Relationship Advice on Sidechat | my gf rarely compliments me anymore and is so busy all the time. last time she complimented me she was drunk, and then took it all back when she was sober. i don’t know how to bring it up bc she’s so busy, but it’s starting to affect me. any advice?

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Relationship Advice 10w

my gf rarely compliments me anymore and is so busy all the time. last time she complimented me she was drunk, and then took it all back when she was sober. i don’t know how to bring it up bc she’s so busy, but it’s starting to affect me. any advice?

Anonymous 10w

how long have you been together?

Anonymous 10w

is she genuinely busy constantly? like you don't have any outings or dates or anything planned?

Anonymous 9w

wdym she took it back?

Anonymous

#1 10w

just made 6 months

Anonymous

OP 10w

when did you start feeling ignored?

Anonymous

#1 10w

it’s been ongoing for the past two or three weeks. if it was only for a day or week i wouldn’t worry about it, but it’s been continuous

Anonymous

#1 10w

sorry idk why this didn't go as a reply

Anonymous

#1 10w

we’re long distance. and we used to call every tuesday but our schedules don’t align anymore. she’s in multiple shows with rehearsals late into the night + school

Anonymous

#1 10w

don’t worry it’s all good

Anonymous

OP 10w

oh long distance definitely makes it tougher, I'm sorry. I know the feeling. Maybe try to schedule another time you guys could call? It's important that you let her know how you feel though, because if it really is being busy that's preventing her from talking to you, then only by knowing that you feel neglected will she know that she has to fix that.

Anonymous

#1 10w

thank you for the advice i really appreciate it!!

Anonymous

#3 9w

basically she said in the morning when she sobered to “ignore what she said last night”