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Relationship Advice 3w
Been seeing this older guy for 3 weeks, mid distance relationship. I don’t drive ad he Said he’s tired of driving to my city only for 1 night dinner so he invited me over to his place for the second time this week.I got there Friday morning(Check comment)
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Anonymous 3w

It was going really great, playing games its of laugh yet and hanging out with his dog, then this Sunday morning he started acting distant. All the activities that i proposed he said he’s tired. We were supposed to go see live music tonight but he suddenly said he’s work out and that he doesn’t want me to leave but doesn’t know how else to keep me entertained. I packed my stuff called an uber and told him I was going back home. Then he admitted he needed space. I kinda understand him but

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Anonymous 3w

going for people outside your maturity and life stage range

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I felt so rejected too. While saying goodbye he said “have a good Monday” he didn’t even check yet if I made it home safe” I feel bad because last night I got tipsy and indirectly told him I couldn’t fall in love with him or something along those lines. He said we don’t even know each other that well but we didn’t even address that today. Idk what to think right now. I wanna be understanding but I also feel like crying. We talked about how he’s avoidant and I’m anxious attachment

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