he does it BECAUSE it makes you feel like the bad guy.

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He sounds toxic to me girl. Relationship is about adjusting to each other accepting accountability and understanding vulnerability.

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your feelings are 100% valid, you can never change how you feel. but some guys could get defensive because they don’t want to take accountability, or maybe he thinks you’re being “overdramatic”. find yourself a man that can understand you whether you’re in the right or wrong.

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Major red flag is not being open to listening to your partner ngl. But maybe bring it up to him if you feel comfortable doing so, maybe there’s a reason and communicating is better than suffering alone

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