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im white and my bf is mexican. i told him im not comfortable with him using the n word. he said he wouldn't say it anymore, but he still does. he also makes comments about how i don't have any place to police him on it bc he's a poc n im not.
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Anonymous 17h

yo bf stupid

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Anonymous 15h

Yo that’s fucking stupid. I’m mixed and I don’t even use the word. (Hispanic black and white.) I don’t think it’s appropriate for myself since I’m light asf 😂 definitely not okay and even though he is technically a poc , he is not black .

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Anonymous 8h

Dump him I’m so serious I’m Mexican and my ex was also Hispanic and I hated when he did that I told him repeatedly I didn’t like him saying slurs and he stopped but I found out he only stopped in front of me and was still that way to everyone else. Your man isn’t gonna change and that’s even worse he says you can’t “police him” when he’s being called out. He won’t change and he’s gonna expect you to get used to it

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Anonymous 11h

So I guess he’s fine with black folks using w—b—- or b——r, some folks need a taste of their own shit.

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Anonymous 5h

Best answer I can give is to break up with him and call it a day. He’s not respecting your boundaries on the use of a word.. what else is he not going to respect you about?..

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Anonymous 2h

Let me guess you support Lindsay Clancy too. Stupid wh*te girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

As a black person, I appreciate you sticking your neck out for us. It’s kinda sad how stuff like this is casually being brought back.. POC on POC crime is real and while some people might not care, some of us do, so thank you for this 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

best response lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6h

That's exactly what happened. he told me he wouldn't say it and that he doesn't, but i saw it in messages on his phone from the day before So i pressed the issue again

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2h

Dude what ? Who r u talking 2?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2h

Who do you think? Oh maybe the wall?

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