Relationship Advice on Sidechat | Being in a healthy relationship feels so odd. Like wait you actually want to talk to me & sleep on the phone like only sleep! No pressure for sex, kinks nothing. Just him and i talking about random stuff. Like I feel I’m waiting for something to go wrong

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Being in a healthy relationship feels so odd. Like wait you actually want to talk to me & sleep on the phone like only sleep! No pressure for sex, kinks nothing. Just him and i talking about random stuff. Like I feel I’m waiting for something to go wrong

Anonymous 17h

No literally how I feel in my relationship. Like it’s so good that sometimes I catch myself self sabotaging. Like what do u mean u actually fulfill my needs, perfect communication, assurance, love, spoil me, are always there for me in whatever way i need u like huh?!?

Anonymous 16h

Oh it will but that's life and relationships. Got to work at it

Anonymous

#1 16h

Right!!! I do the same thing and he always tells me “your pushing me away again” or just the simple line of “it’s okay to let me help” means so much more then they know!

Anonymous

OP 16h

No literally! The way he talks to me when I start spiraling or self sabotaging makes me feel seen in a way I haven’t been before and it makes me feel so loved

Anonymous

#1 16h

Mine doesn’t same thing!! The way he talks me down from a panic attack, or when I go nonverbal and head to my hiding spot. He give me a minute then comes and sits with me, if it’s bad he just hold me and to be able to feel safe enough to feel all the feelings is something I can’t even put into words