You can want and uphold your standards and eventually you will find your man. But also in this day and age, there’s not many men left who are virgins at 20 which isn’t a bad thing and they shouldn’t be judged but it significantly reduces your potential dating pool. Thats up to you if it’s worth waiting. Also, ppl are too nonchalant. But usually it’s coming from a place of fear of being too much and scaring others away. So if you push through that awkward start, you may find someone amazing.

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