
I also just enjoy and feel better having a coffee in the morning sometimes so when we’re on a road trip, I’ll ask for a quick stop to get a coffee and just because he doesn’t feel like he needs one, he’ll ignore me. Or say “let’s just see what we come across along the way” and then conveniently miss all the turns. I’ve told him repeatedly that it’s hurtful when he does that but then he keeps doing it.
based on what was said already, I think he doesn’t; He may “think” he does but he’s not actually appreciating her. Yeah the day-to-day quirks can get a little bothersome but if he truly loved her he wouldn’t fully ignore her for a period of time just because he doesn’t want a drink and she does. That’s ridiculous! Now, however, if Op asks him every, single, morning and often throughout the day, that bothersome-ness would start to build. Recently I’ve tried to be more selective for favors