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Relationship Advice 1d
my bf of almost 4 years has always treated me good and hasn’t done anything to make me not trust him but soon we are transferring to diff unis and I can’t escape the fear and anxiety over getting cheated on. I’ve been cheated on before and idk what to d
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Anonymous 1d

Tell him that you have anxiety over it and see what he says! It’s gonna Make you overthink more if you don’t! I’ve been through it too when someone chooses someone else over you and that fear always exists somewhere deep inside you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I’ve told him before and he always reassures me and tells me he would never do that. It’s just so hard not to generalize with men and feel like it won’t happen again. Especially since his best friend made a really weird comment recently saying “ whatever happens in New York stays in New York” when he was telling my bf to go on a trip w him. It was a joke but it still made me very uneasy he was joking like that w my bf who im abt to me long distance with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Well if he loves you then he won’t do something to lose you! You got this! Trust your gut!

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