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I wasted all 4 years of college and didn’t find a girl. Now I’m to the point where I don’t even know how to find a girl to settle down with. Where do I go from here.
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Anonymous 7w

Dating apps? Ask your friend to set you up? TALK to someone? Just date bro

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Anonymous 7w

Make friends, especially platonic friends with women. A lot of good relationships happen from people being set up by mutual friends. If you’re a good platonic friend to women likely at some point one will have a friend who’s getting back into the dating game again and if they think you’d be a good match they’ll set you up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Dating apps are a fucking joke. And who tf am i supposed to talk to? The 70 year old ladys that walk into where I work? My 2 coworkers that both have boyfriends? I go to the gym but its small and usually nobodys there. Ive tried a few times when there are somebody there but they either straight up reject me (which is fine ig) or they have a boyfriend as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I met my long time partner on a dating app, but even if you don’t find true love you get dating experience. If you’re 21 go to a bar, my general point is just put yourself out there. That’s the only way to meet people, I think asking people out at the gym is great. I know it’s harder if you’re a straight guy but if you want an honest answer it’s just keep trying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

At least u acknowledge it’s harder

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