You could offer your presence there to support him if he wanted but make it zero pressure. Tell him you understand either way if he’d want you to go or not. And that you’re there for him however he needs you to be.

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i would offer but not be super offended if he said no

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Yes of course you should offer like #2 said tell him there’s no pressure at all you’ll be there for him whether he wants you to accompany him there or not but do offer. Especially since you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend and not just dating or seeing each other.

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if he wanted you there, he'd ask. there's not more to it.

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Hi OP, has he kept you away from his friends and other family? If so, he doesn’t want you to know and thus be how he ever he wants because the people that know him won’t see what he does behind closed doors. Or it can be he doesn’t want the family drama messing with you. But for that means you know his inner circle.

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