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When is it best to give up on fixing things with my ex and how to do it? Me and her have been trying to, but she’s refusing to communicate and giving a lot of one word responses for over a month now. She says she wants to, but isn’t really showing it.
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Anonymous 1d

I would say now is the best time to end it. You just tell her that you can’t be in a relationship where you’re the only one making an effort

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Anonymous 19h

I was is this situation a while back I would honestly step back more if she isn’t giving the effort. Bc you want to match her energy, so give the same back

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Anonymous 19h

If you want to give up then that’s up to you honestly I went 8 months crying and trying to get myself back together and I was in your situation where she would say she wanted to! So I went 2 more months with this uncertainty with her until we she gave the same energy back

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Anonymous 18h

Yeah that is though

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

But then somehow I’m in the wrong. I tried that. And she flipped out on me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Then it seems she really likes your effort but doesn’t care about how you feel!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

That’s pretty toxic

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