It's going to be a hard process, made even harder by the emotional abuse. Abusers behave that way *because* it makes you depend on them and feel lost without them. But if you want to build a better life for yourself, you have to get far away from that experience.

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You miss the consistency of it, not the abuse. You did the right thing

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Stay strong sista!

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Maybe he will change

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Go celebrate, you already know all his red flags so can you see yourself happy with him more years down the line if he’s been that way during the relationship?

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