Relationship Advice on Sidechat | My girlfriend of 2 years is about to move in and she has been for a few months slowly disassociate herself from our relationship we sit on the phone for hours and the only time she talks is when I do, I told her that and her response is I’ve been tired.

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Relationship Advice 4w

My girlfriend of 2 years is about to move in and she has been for a few months slowly disassociate herself from our relationship we sit on the phone for hours and the only time she talks is when I do, I told her that and her response is I’ve been tired.

Anonymous 4w

Sounds like she could possibly be depressed. I get that way when I’m feeling kinna numb. You can try to ask her about it slowly.

Anonymous 4w

Oh man, depends really. How often before did you talk with her and spend quality time? Part of being in a long term committed relationship where you live together is being able to exist in the same space without interacting. So it could be a shock that she seems withdrawn right now if previously it was you guys 24/7. Ask yourself if it’s something to do with newfound proximity, before thinking it’s a deeper issue. Best thing you could do rn is ask how to make this new time and space meaningful

Anonymous 3w

Maybe she’s getting nervous about the move

Anonymous

#2 4w

If she still isn’t really able to engage or seem to care…maybe talk to her about the efficacy and longevity of moving in together? Love changes, but it should never not be felt. If you’re not feeling the love anymore, it’s worth addressing