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Asked my bf of almost 2yrs how he knew he was in love with me and his response was that I checked off all his boxes🫠 am I overthinking this or is that really a gut wrenching answer
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Anonymous 21h

it's a very autistic answer and I mean that sincerely. if he's on the spectrum at all that might be his way of saying "well you're perfect for me"

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Anonymous 1d

I told him it hurt my feelings and he says he meant it in a “you’re everything I’ve been looking for / all I’ve ever wanted, you’re perfect” type of way

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Anonymous 11h

To me this sounded like “you were good enough so I settled on you” but upon reflection I’m realizing this man has no reason to be settling yet. We’re still so young why would he be settling lmao I think he just meant it in a different way than I took it

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Anonymous 1h

I’m new here I need someone serious to have a decent conversation so we can hang out soon 😇❤️‍🔥

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

You think so? His family and I have seen a lot of traits in him that are commonly considered signs of autism

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

then I would definitely say ease off on being mad at him because he probably really meant it in the nicest way imaginable

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