Relationship Advice on Sidechat | I’m talking to this girl who has a child and idk how i feel abt it. She’s everything i wanted in a girl and she is the sweetest person ive met in a while. I just dont know how I feel about potentially being with someone elses kid. But even if we did end

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Relationship Advice 3w

I’m talking to this girl who has a child and idk how i feel abt it. She’s everything i wanted in a girl and she is the sweetest person ive met in a while. I just dont know how I feel about potentially being with someone elses kid. But even if we did end

Anonymous 3w

i dont have a problem raising the kid with her at all. i love babies and i always wanted my own. i just dont know how i feel abt marrying someone and not having a child with her for the first time yk ? but i wouldnt neglect the child bc hes not mine i would treat him like hes mine for sure

Anonymous 3w

up together, I know I would treat that child like my own. What are ur thoughts on my situation

Anonymous 3w

I’m in the same situation only reversed my boyfriend has a kid…tbh I still don’t know how I feel about it because I love him but you’re definitely not alone in your situation!

Anonymous 3w

Ithere’s someone else out there for you

Anonymous 3w

Very tough situation for sure. But also, if that’s not something you’re ready for you should not feel embarrassed or like you have to take that place. Committing to the relationship is not only her but, especially if her child is her world, the child is in the package too. Coming from a woman’s perspective, if you were to say you’re okay with it but have that lingering feeling at it ends up not working out and you’ve already been exposed to all of it, I think I’d definitely feel wronged.

Anonymous

#1 3w

I think communication is your best bet, tell her how you feel about her and the entire situation. That way you’re not hiding anything from her and you both can get a sense of the reality of the situation/ each other.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Yes! For sure! And you sound very genuine and kind which is amazing. And you’re also very valid in your feelings of what you expected things to be like when it comes to getting married and having children. Sometimes things do change and if you feel like she’s all you could dream of then it definitely could be worth it and bring you lots of fulfillment. I just think you need to sit with it or talk to her about it for a little bit to be sure that’s something that’s communicated/understood

Anonymous

#1 3w

i appreciate ur feedback ty :)

Anonymous

OP 3w

Of course! I hope things go well for you both! Sometimes people and situations are placed in your life for the better :)