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My boyfriend is a onlyfans model and going into the relationship I thought I would be okay with it but now it’s causing me so much anxiety and sadness and I don’t know what to do
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Anonymous 1w

i think it’s fair to bring it up with your boyfriend but you can’t try to convince him to stop if he doesn’t want to

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Anonymous 1w

I would investigate the source of that sadness. I was anxious when my boyfriend and I opened up and he dated someone else. But I found that my real anxiety came from a place of insecurity and possessiveness; I didn’t like that others had access to him or that I wasn’t literally everything that he could ever want. The more I sat on it, the more I realized that I was projecting my insecurities and upholding somewhat rigid, conservative, and unrealistic relationship ideals.

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Anonymous 1w

I would be sad too. I’d never date an OF model ever.

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Anonymous 1w

You need cheering

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Anonymous 1w

Heyy pm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Dm

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Oh no I would never try to convince or even ask him to stop it’s just hard figuring out my feelings on it

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