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does anyone know how to ask him to put more effort in ? when we first started dating it was amazing but now it feels like he’s just complacent, it’s been three months, i still want to be seduced, but it feels like he’s not trying 75% of the time
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Anonymous 2w

Same thing was happening to me. Literally just told him he doesn’t make me feel desired/sought after and when I pointed it out to him he asked what he can do to make me feel that way. Sometimes they just need to be told honestly and given blatant instructions on what to do to improve

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Anonymous 2w

Just be open and honest and tell him exactly that, and how you feel. In a nice way. Don’t push all blame on him

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Anonymous 2w

i’m having the same issue…nothing changed in mine so far and it’s been 6 months but not every relationship is the same! just talk to him

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