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Relationship Advice 1d
how long into a relationship do you guys wait to have sex? We’re just “talking stage” and i really want to 😣
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Anonymous 1d

Just gonna throw this out there, I had sex with my bf on our second date and we’ve been together for over four years now. Relationships are highly individualized and nobody can give you a magic number, so you should do whatever you guys want to do

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Anonymous 1d

Normally the first few weeks but only if I get the vibe that they’re down too

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Anonymous 1d

a while but i'm weird

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Anonymous 1d

first day…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i see, we’re long distance so we only see each other a few times 🫩 idk what to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

we both want to but i think we should wait so the relationship can actually work out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Next time you see them just go for a kiss and see how far they’ll go if they stop you and say they’re not ready then back off and respect it if they continue then lucky you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I would wait until you make it official then and then test the waters before going all in or you could test it now by doing other stuff besides sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

ok this makes me feel better

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