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Relationship Advice 23h
My LD bf and I literally only talk once every 3 days and it’s just a short “I love you” exchange. We never spend time together unless he wants to and he doesn’t tell me when he’s home from stuff etc. He changes, but only shortly when I bring it up. Help☹️
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Anonymous 22h

How long have you been dating? It’s hard to keep up LDR, but communication is necessary. My bf and I speak almost daily on the phone for 1-3 hours before I go to bed since he got stationed 5 hours behind time zone wise. It sucks but you really gotta prioritize time together 😭

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Anonymous 23h

On the never spending time together unless he wants to—I’ll ask, give him a time frame I’m free, and then he’ll say he'll “get back to me” (all sweet) and then …. Doesn't. I try not to remind him because I know it makes both him and I not want to do it but… come on now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

It’s getting to the point where I know we both still love each other but at the same time it doesn’t seem to be worth it to be in a relationship anymore, is it? I fell for him because he cared and even if he still does he’s not acting like it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

10 months, and… that’s exactly the thing 😭 I try to reach out so we can be in more contact but if I don’t catch him during his prime windows I will either not get a response or get one much later. I kind of feel like a 1950s housewife I’m ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Yeah no I hate that for you 😭 he needs to also put in that effort and prioritize mannn

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