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We live together, but we have been on the rocks for months. If we were to break up, how do we navigate that?
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Anonymous 1d

You are both adults. Hopefully it won’t end BAD…It doesn’t have to be good, but try talking to them, ask what they’d want if/when you both are done with the relationship and give them or yourself a time frame for finding a new place if that’s the final decision. If you have to live tg, it’ll still be the same, try to tablespoon your partner boundaries for the house/living space…

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Anonymous 1d

Me when I don’t upvote a post I should be upvoting on hete

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Anonymous 1d

I wish I knew. The man I was with for years left me 3 months ago. We still live together…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

I also have kids with this man so i feel like im failing my family from not being good enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Have you all tried counseling? Or any other tools? Are you married? You won’t be failing your kids. If it’s a bad environment and they are constantly around fighting, is it good for them to witness and experience? These are some questions I’d ask myself if I were in this position again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

We fight away from them normally but here lately he’s gotten cruel yelling at me

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