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How do I get my bf to dress like an adult? He only wears athletic shorts and tees but we’re adults and that’s all well and good but if I get dressed up I want him to match my energy, yk?
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Anonymous 3w

Show him Adam Sandler.

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Anonymous 3w

Find nicer clothes that he likes to wear. Don’t force someone to be uncomfortable to make yourself feel better

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Anonymous 3w

Figure out why he doesn’t like to first: if it’s comfort, confidence, not knowing how to, or just not caring. That way you’ll know if you’re forcing your preference or not. If it’s confidence or not knowing, give him little compliments when he does a bit more, get him something or point out something he already has and tell him how good he’ll look in it to incentivize him. If he doesn’t care and doesn’t want to change figure out why YOU DO and if it’s a dealbreaker or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

This, take him someplace that makes him look good and he feels good in, get him to explain how he likes a relaxed fit so nicer clothes can do the same.

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