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Red Flags 19w
I was talking to my partner about sex and my kinks and she says she “isn’t excited to do them” but doesn’t mind. Is this something I should be worried about or is it a green flag
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Anonymous 17w

I see it as a future incompatibility. Kink works much better when both parties are actively kinky

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Anonymous 15w

It just means she’s not into the things you’re into. So you gotta respect that.

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Anonymous 15w

It’s not a red flag, she’s just communicating with you what she doesn’t like.

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