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Red Flags 7w
“Every single one of my exs was crazy” 🤨
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Anonymous 7w

Two possibilities: they’re the problem or they’re so traumatized they see fucked up relationships as the norm or desirable during the time they had those relationships. They’re on a healing journey. However, theres a chance they’ll end up toxic due to the lack of trust trauma causes

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Anonymous 7w

I have been in 4 relationships in my life time. 3/4 of them were great guys and I was with them for a reason, things just didn’t work out. The one I can confidently say is crazy had me pledge to myself that I would never allow someone in my life like that again. I can spot the red flags now immediately. If you have multiple “crazy” ex’s its because you’re the problem sorry 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Sometimes someone is traumatized so long they find comfort in toxicity. I’d say I’d give it four. If they’ve had four evil exes they’re a problem. Whether that be bc of trauma responses ruling their life and making them toxic or they’ve always been the problem idk.

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