Red Flags on Sidechat | Biggest red flag, especially since I know a lot of people on this app may be college freshman: if they’re an older person and they’re dating an 18-20 y/o, the only thing stopping them from going lower is the law most likely.

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Red Flags 15h

Biggest red flag, especially since I know a lot of people on this app may be college freshman: if they’re an older person and they’re dating an 18-20 y/o, the only thing stopping them from going lower is the law most likely.

Anonymous 14h

Also if you’re 18/19 try to keep any older people you date in the 1-2 year age gap category. A 22 y/o is way more mature than an 18 y/o and are often at fully different points in their lives.

Anonymous 8h

I’m 25 and 20 is the lowest I’ll ever date and even then that’s as a concept bc I’ve only ever actually dated 22-24

Anonymous

#1 8h

20 def seems pushing it only because I’ll be 20 as a sophomore/ junior in college and I’ll be (hopefully!!) 25 when I’m in my senior year of medical school

Anonymous

OP 7h

ya i said that range bc i’ve spoken to a few 20yr old women but ultimately never pursued further than a talking stage

Anonymous

#1 7h

Yeah that generally seems best unless yiure both in the same life stage. I didn’t include 20 in my comment just because I do think at that point it’s easier to be in a similar life stage as someone older than you