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Should I say something to my gf about sleeping in the same bed with a new friend who is bi? Or does that sound controlling and insecure
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Anonymous 13w

It doesn’t mean it’s cheating or anything but you should def still have a convo about it if it bothers you

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Anonymous 13w

Definitely not controlling bro

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Anonymous 13w

She’s had a “friend” who she made out with twice while we’ve been dating and hid it for months so I’m sensitive to it now. Same set up for what happened then

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Anonymous 13w

No definitely say something

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Anonymous 8w

You should that’s definitely not controlling

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Dude that’s literally cheating. How many homies you making out with?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Ok, then definitely say something. Honestly if I were you, I’d be upset with her as-is. It’s way more suspicious if she’s done it before. You should probably question your relationship tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yeah ik it’s the fact I dint find out for 6 mos. It’s hard after getting so close to someone and they drop that on you. Hard to throw it away. I question it a lot - my choice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Yeaa dude u better say something😬😬

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

You deserve love and respect, not things that hurt you like that. Sometimes you gotta draw the line and protect yourself. That isn’t love. It’s toxic and wrong. If it’s not solved by now, it’s not gonna be, and it’s gotta go.

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