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I’m not sure if this is a red flag or not, but I think my gf is very insecure and needs constant validation, to the point where if I’m quiet for too long she asks if I’m mad at her and if I still love her
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Anonymous 20h

Not necessarily. She’s just anxiously attached. If you proactively re-assure her I’m sure she’ll start feeling a bit more secure. But if you can’t do that be patient when she seeks it herself :)

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Anonymous 14h

It can be a red flag, depending on the girl and your own capabilities. My last gf was like this. Obsessively. She had a lot of issues but it got to the point where I personally dreaded seeing her because I was so tired of her clinginess. That’s just my story though and maybe your girl is different.

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Anonymous 12h

Possibly borderline personality disorder

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Anonymous 12h

just talk to her about it communication goes along way

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Anonymous 11h

I’m not really sure why people are straight up downvoting people who maybe bluntly said this is a red flag, I’m gonna say what nobody else is saying though and say that she probably needs therapy and that if you feel like it’s causing tension in your relationship to be dating someone who sounds like she’s pretty anxiously attached or stuggles with insecurity/trust issues then reconsider the relationship from that angle and what your boundaries are.

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Anonymous 10h

Here is a good trick. Tell her instead of asking “do you love me?” you just say “you love me” and then you say yes. It feels better for everyone

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Anonymous 13h

Red flag easily

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Anonymous 15h

Yeah that’s a red flag.

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Anonymous 19h

nah she just sound insecure u right or she cheating

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