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Red Flags 2w
ok be honest, is it a red flag that my bf of over 2 years doesn’t want to spend the night with me anymore? he pays his own rent and he says that’s why he wants to stay at his own place but lowk ive caught him in sum shit before and now i be wondering…
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Anonymous 2w

I think it’s a red flag if he’s already given you reason to doubt him. Like, if it’s just every once and a while it might be normal, but if he full on doesn’t spend any nights with you even if you stayed at his place, then yeah super sus

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Anonymous 2w

Doesn’t sound like a red flag to me

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Anonymous 2w

I do have to agree with #1 honestly just talk to him if he can’t give you an answer too ease your mind or just talk it out then trust your gut just try not to jump to conclusions communication is key in a relationship

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