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For the people who said no, why?
Do you love your parents?
#poll
Yes
No
Its complicated/other
456 votes
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Anonymous 13w

Hi, im OP. My parents are terrible people. I dont feel any connection towards them. Im 20 and they ignored me my entire childhood and now I live thousands of miles away, and even despite that I make an effort but they kinda just ignore me. They are visiting me rn and my Dad would rather take a nap then go on a walk with me, so as soon as I can Im cutting them off.

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Anonymous 13w

Molesters and serial cheaters. Too selfish to care about me why should I care about them

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Anonymous 12w

I have been disabled since I was young and my mom is very resentful of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Same. Except it’s just my mom. She’s been verbally and emotionally abusive. She has said terrible things to me and done terrible things. After all of that, she thinks that I owe her everything, like I should cherish her and bow down to her. everyday she thinks everything is okay. But she has threatened to kick me out twice so I can’t forgive that or anything thing she has done/said. so I just put on an act so she won’t threaten anything and I can wait to get enough money to move out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I can’t fucking stand her. Sometimes I wish she died instead of my dad

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Omfg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Yeah mom likes to touch lil boys and dad has like 8 different kids and couch surfs between friends and baby mamas haven’t seen him since I was 14 and haven’t talked to my mom since I moved to college. We were CPS’s favorite family growing lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

that’s terrible. you deserve a patient and understanding parent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I think about my family dying all the time, and I kind of get excited. The number one stressor in my life would be gone and id inherit some money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Same. Except my sister literally cherishes her so I’d have to take care of her then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Im the exact same way lmao, my sister is 10 and lives 1,500 miles away from me and I cant take care of her and she would end up with either my alcoholic aunt or the extremely Christian aunt so the status quo will have to do

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