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if you're unsure if you *want* kids, do you plan to have them anyway?
#poll
yes
no
unsure lol
I already have kids
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Anonymous 16h

Definitely not having them unless I truly end up wanting them, I’ll adopt if I have to if I get too old (40-50) to have my own honestly lmfao

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Anonymous 10h

Scared of pregnancy and giving birth and having a lazy husband who doesn’t understand my needs is more scary than kids itself

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Anonymous 17h

Kids are horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

That’s only if I ACTUALLY want them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2h

they’re not. they’re new humans who are learning about the world, which can be annoying for adults who already understand social norms. but they deserve respect like any other human and they’re not “bad”. replace “kids” with any other group of people when you all make statements like this and it’s bigotry. you sound hateful and jaded.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1h

that’s my opinion, and it’s not bigotry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23m

just because it’s “your opinion” doesn’t mean it can’t smack of bigotry and hatefulness. you’re free to have your opinion but you’re not free from judgement for it.

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