
aboominator
Does a high bodycount (3+) matter?Context is key in judging someones social behaviors but I fear if youre gaining more than a couple bodies a year you have some problems with self worth and intimacy that need to be addressed in a relationship and its not unfair for a partner to expect an explanation or be uncomfortable with that number
you dont have to be a virgin to think that sex is a beautiful thing to be shared between two people who deeply love eachother. to me, if my partner has had sex with three people, it means he has had sex with 3 people he truly deeply loved in a committed relationship. sure we all slip up sometimes thinking the wrong person is going to be in your life longer than you think but i want all of my partners to generally have the same mindset as me