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Do you think you’ll want to have kids?
#poll
Leaning no - M
Leaning yes - M
Leaning no - F
Leaning yes - F
864 votes
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Anonymous 6d

Always thought yes growing up but now I feel farther away from being ready then I did was a kid

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Anonymous 6d

I’d want to have kids if I were a man

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Anonymous 6d

One day i wanna be a dad but not any time soon

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Anonymous 5d

The gender discrepancy in the results is exactly what I feared🥲 as a girl who doesn’t want to have kids (or at least kids of her own), it’s always a problem w/ guys I date🙃

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Anonymous 6d

Not leaning, just no.

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Anonymous 6d

hell no -19 m

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Anonymous 6d

I feel scared when thinking about getting and raising (a) kid(s)- M

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Anonymous 6d

I wanted to be young when I have kids so I can grow with my family but the problem is finding the right person before I’m old - 22f

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Anonymous 6d

I have always known I don’t want to be married or have kids. I’m just fine bouncing from hook up to hook up. It’s just something that I have no desire for and if I did it would kill me. Especially having kids of my own in my life

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Anonymous 5d

All the men saying yes bc they aren’t the ones who’ll have to be pregnant or get stuck with shit parenting duties when they decide to fuck off

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Anonymous 6d

I feel like I’m not really leaning either direction, I don’t have much of a preference Like I think I’d be happy as a dad but I would also be perfectly comfortable childless, I think it really just comes down to my future partner’s opinion on the matter

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Anonymous 5d

I’d want to but I can also understand why a woman wouldn’t want to

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Anonymous 6d

I’d want kids however idk if I’d even be able to afford them cause I can barely afford myself

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Anonymous 6d

M- Ideally yes I’d love to have 1 or 2 kids, but realistically I’m not so sure it’s a good idea or ever going to work out

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Anonymous 6d

depends on the partner i end up with, but will prolly adopt

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Anonymous 6d

I’d make an amazing dad and a disappointing mom

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Anonymous 6d

Girls only want kids after they’re blown out and when guys don’t want them anymore. Then they’re ready to “settle down”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

If you are unsure, then don’t, but if you really want it then someone is going to share the same ambition and respect your determination to have a family

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 6d

Guys only want kids after they’re done fucking around and still can’t be responsible enough when they are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

real 22M

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2d

have kids with eachother

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

It wouldn’t be this way, if more men took on more of the caretaking duties. Childrearing is easy if you only get to enjoy the benefits of it

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